You are here by David Mitchell Review

I’m yet to find a David Mitchell I have not enjoyed, so no surprise I enjoyed this one. One day still by far holds the number one spot in my heart ❤️.

I enjoyed You are here because:

– Definately related to the characters as they are at a similar stage in life to me having gone through a pandemic whilst single in late 30s and therefore not being sure of their futures. Then they are put together on the coast to coast walk!

– Lot’s of familiar to me Wainwright illustrations.

– It is about walking the English coast to coast and starts in the Lake District so as a walker those features interest me.

– It has some grit, some humour and is about characters being physically and emotionally challenged.

So if you like One Day then yes try this one. I will likely reread at some stage!

If you have not read it start it and stop 🛑 reading this because spoiler ahead!

So if you have read it what do you think?

So the spoiler ….

The ending ….

Well I did not expect to turn the page to find just an illustration! I felt kind of disappointed as was enjoying reading and then there was no more. Plus it felt like a non ending.

But they say a picture says a thousand words so in this case guess those words are ones for the reader to imagine. Presumably the illustration means that they completed the coast to coast. Became a couple / remained friends or used it as a character building exercise then moved on? Not sure as since read it not given the book much thought. I enjoyed whilst reading but it has only made a minor impact … on the first read.

February Library Month

February is library month. To start the month a reblog from October 2019 of a tag about my experience of libraries.

Since then I have borrowed books from my local library in Hillsborough. I now work at home so it is not as inconvenient to pop in when it is open. I do not constantly take books out.

I did take books out during last year. My favourite being Ivy and Abe by Elizabeth Enfield. Which I can still remember, jumped out of me on the library shelves.

More a out Ivy and Abe

It has been a while now since last used the library.

When did you last use a library?

Saltburnt

I have been afflicted (saltburnt) by the film Saltburn. I’m very pleased unlike a lot of people I did not watch it with family – that would have been excruciating! It is not just that there are sex scenes it is that the scenes can be perverse. There are graphic scenes (and not just, sexual ones) the camera stays on a vomit covered sink for an extended uncomfortable time.

The film has opulent settings of Oxford university and a grand stately type house. The house with the pool, far reaching land and unique customs are intriguing to watch. The characters in the film are 3 dimensional, whilst displaying some traits reflecting their status in life like pomposity, care free, arrogance they are also not easy characters to understand in terms of their motives.

My Mum mentioned Saltburn before I watched it and asked if I had watched. I’m so glad I had not. She mentioned it again today! I so do not want to admit to watching it to her and to get asked about it. I don’t want her to watch it for risk of her commenting on it to me!

Overall during and after the film there is a feeling of bewilderment. I suspect certain scenes will take a long time to forget; particularly by those scarred for life by watching the film with family.

Magpie by Elizabeth Day: What I would change!

CONTAINS SPOILERS

Firstly I think a more appropriate bird to name the book after may have been Cuckoo.

Secondly the blurb on the back undersold the book! There was some gems between the covers yet the blurb could not mention that the story resolved around surrgacy without spoiling the first part of the book; M’s story. I think the first part of the book could have been written differently to allow the blurb to be more specific and alluring.

I think M and Kate’s story could have been interwoven at the beginning of the book. So it would not have had to have been kept quiet about the surrogacy. Additionally Kate’s fertility story whist well written was slow to get through because it went back in time from the first part of the book and I wanted to go forward! Iwould have started with a chapter on Kate meeting Jake and then moving in together within 3 months. Then I would have gone to a chapter called diary entry. Which initially would read as continuation of Kate’s story but would actually be M describing viewing the house to nice in to with Jake after just 3 months.

Then after diary gone back to Kate’s infertility struggle. Up to her getting pregnant for the first time. Then back to M diary about her getting pregnant. Again back to Kate and her miscarriage and so on. With it becoming clear that diary writter and Kate not the same person.

On the other hand I did like that M had a back story, that did not directly impact the story. The back story adds depth and also makes you wonder if characters are linked. If they had turned out to be linked that would have seemed implausible therefore half written that way.

Memoirs of a Child Book Worm (Work in Progress)

After reading Lucy Mangham’s Memoir of Childhood Reading, I have started trying to recollect and compile mine.

Review of memoirs of a book worm

So far I have documented the following memories;

Enid Blyton

Worst Witch

My Naughty Little Sister

Books read at school

Roald Dahl

Animal of Farthing Wood series

Roald Dahl Day: Memoirs of a childhood bookworm

Today on Roald Dahl day some of my memories of Roald Dahl books which is part of my memoirs of a childhood bookworm. I don’t know which I will have read first.

– I vividly recall the images of Charlie’s 4 Grandparents topping and tailing at the beginning of the book. Do not know when read but can remember being struck by that image.

– George’s Marvellous medicine. I can remember was reading on Saturday when getting ready to go shopping and think I read out funny parts. The book cover was red.

– Talking of funny … The Twits

– I saw a film version of the whithes at the cinema

– I can remember my Dad reading Fantastic Mr Fox to my sister and I. In later years I read it to it baby brother.

– James and the giant peach out copy of the book was second hand and well worn even before we started reading! Again the imagery!

– Danny the champion of the world. Saw tv show after read the book.

– controversial opinion Matilda to me was so, so in comparison to other Roald Dahl books as I enjoyed others more.

– Later years read his two funny autobiographies. As adult have read some of his short stories and now own box set of his children’s books which I found in a charity shop.

When talking about Roald Dahl have to mention Quentin Blake’s fabulous illustrations.

Also although it Will not mean anything to anyone else got to record for prosperity … Sitting around the table after Sunday dinner when my brother was young he very solemnly mentioning liking Roald Dahl and then said sadly he was dead. Something about way he said it made my parents burst into laughter.

Barbie film all the thoughts (or at least a lot of them)

I have so far watched the Barbie film twice. Not because I was blown away by it; but because I think there is such a lot in it to digest. Plus second time was very spontaneous as just happened to by the cinema with unexpected time on my hands.

I had not seen trailer before watching. I obviously knew it was a phenomena, so wanted to see what it was about. I had heard not a kids film so knew it was not going to be too infantile. I enjoyed it more the second time, because I could relax knowing where the plot was going. Still this is tough trying to get thoughts in order as so many elements of the film. There are SPOILERS Ahead!!!!

I guess when not knowing where to start … start at the beginning! So the film starts by a narrator saying how girls have always played with dolls. It shows girls playing with baby dolls. A narrator explains how the dolls were always babies and could get boring just playing at being Mother’s. …but then Barbie came!!! It was a striking introduction. Albeit when I was watching first time I was assessing whether film suitable for my 8year old niece, therefore the sight of the girls smashing their baby dolls up at the end of the introduction was a bit sad; like when can you not play with baby dolls and Barbies?

Credits run during the introduction and it is clever that the narrators name not revealed until towards end of introduction. The narrator is Helen Mirrum after not recognising her voice it was reassuring that she had endorsed the film.

Next the film changes tone again. Showing different Barbies. And talking about how Barbie started in a swimming costume but then showed how Barbie and therefore girls could be anything they wanted to be. I had thought the film may end with this kind of message and although I agree with the principle, I’m not sure I would have been satisfied by that simplistic ending.

In third change of tone; we enter Barbie land! Lots of pink! Margot Roberts shown looking perfect waking up and greeting Barbies in other Barbie houses. Then getting up and putting heeled slippers on, that foot scene getting into shower (had heard about that before seeing the film!), getting dressed then leaving the house; all of course accompanied by a song! Barbies are shown doing all types of jobs then Margot Barbie arrives at the beach where Ken’s are introduced. Ken’s are shown as comedy characters with limited intelligence. Barbie moves through the day in the same cute way to a glamorous dance party. But then she blurts out about thinking about DEATH!

The film continues the next day with Barbie’s morning routine but this time she has not slept well as had more death thoughts! Her shower is cold, she burns her waffle and then at the beach her feet go flat! Barbie’s flat feet lead to her seeking our weird Barbie for advice. I hear that a weird version of Barbie replicating one that had been played with too hard is now been released – clever product launch! Anyway meeting weird Barbie leads to Margot Barbie and Ken going on a mission into the real world!

In the real world Barbie finds that it is very different to Barbie land. A building site at lunch time is not full of feminism energy! She is leered at. Ken on the other hand feels more valued in the real world. Although he does find that just because he is a man he can not walk in and do any job without qualifications! A female dr will not let him walk in and perform an appendectomy! When a man at a company will not give Ken a job off the street, Ken asks if the patriarchy is not working well the company. The man confides it exists but they have to keep it quiet! This section of the film has laughs about the role of men and women! Ken decides to return to Barbie land.

The film’s action then notches up! Including fast car scene! Then real characters enter Barbie land. But Ken has started a patriarchy initiative. The Mother from real world, weird Barbie and Margot Barbie have to hatch a plan to restore order in Barbieland. They succeed partly by turning Ken’s against each other so that they start a war amongst selves!

Barbie then decides to be a real person rather than a Barbie. Weirdly the climax of the film is Barbie going to a gynaecologist in the real world. I guess it is making the point that she is now a real woman with genitals, but still a bit baffling ending.

I often find films tell a very simplistic story without tangents and are predictable. I definitely did not predict this one! If I had predicted before the film; I would have thought the message would be about empowering women. I like how the real world Mother gives speeches about how it is hard to be everything; Mother have high powered job, earn money but not talk about it etc… As although I like girls being encouraged to follow their own unique dreams and not be limited; realistic life is not always easy – it takes more than dreams!

The film packs a lot of different ideas in and changes of pace and tone; saccharine of Barbieland, comedy, action, history of Barbie etc. Plus trying to show wide representation with Barbies and Ken’s of different ethnicities, wheelchair Barbie, plump Barbie and pregnant Barbie. But male figures are put down and shown as stupid. The film nearly addresses this by saying how Barbieland will gradually give men more opportunities so that they become equal to Barbie. But then it swerves away from this message of equality by adding the equality that women have in real world! I like it acknowledges that although we try for an equal world we are not there. The film does not leave with overall message and that is potentially an asset to leave the audience to think for self Cavour issues. Although ability to think is impinged because have been exposed to so much in during the film! Hence I have seen it twice and had to try and recall it like this! I think there are valuable discussion points but think they are not being discussed much as people are coming out of the film rather dazed!

I do not real agree that either men or women should dominate the world. I believe in opportunities for all. But I’m not sure men and women will ever truly be completely equal because men and women are different. As things stand (keeping with Barbie simplistic and not thinking about gender too deeply) it is only females who give birth but that presents dilemmas of whether to have children and if so whether to pursue a career etc and it is hard to do it all! I do feel men are put down in the film and that is not a good message. To be strong women; you do not have to put people down even men and not sure everyone will get that subtly especially young girls. Also film only talks / shows girls playing with dolls. Perhapas boys playing with dolls help promote equality by showing from young age they women do not have to do all the caring!

I do wonder how much young girls take from this film because language is sophisticated and adult concepts complex. And it does seem to mainly girls going! Out of two shows not seen male kids! There are interesting things to discuss for all!

What do you think?

My cookbooks

Found this post in my drafts from 2018!. The shelfie of the time showed them all in a stack on my dining room dresser.

They are all now inside the dresser and not looked at any for ages. Think I acquired a Delia Smith in a sale about 2018 or 2019; that have not spent much time looking at.

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I wrote about each individual book in these posts:

My Cookery books: Home Baking

My cookery books: Be-Ro Flour Home Recipes

My Cookery books: The really useful student cookbook

My cookery books: Nigella Express

My cookery books: Archer’s Cookbook

My cookery books: Cooking light chicken

My cookery books: The Henderson Relish Cookbook

Do you remember the first time .. Coronation days

Only a certain demography will have actual memories of the Queen’s coronation day.

My Mum was only a few months old at the time of the coronation. But I have to commentate that year for her given her a 1953 coin and a £5 King Charles coronation coin.

My Dad was only three and a half so his memories are vague. He can remember it because he had to wear his best clothes out of respect which he was not keen on as just wanted to play. He remembers it being a cold wet day.

My Dad can not recall street parties or whether his family watched it. But he thinks they did not have a tv at home as he thinks they got it for the 1954 World Cup. He said in the World Cup England lost 6-1 to Hungary. But I have crossed checked and it was not the World Cup that England played Hungry in… In 1954 they played each other in Hungry as a pre cup friendly. The score was 7-1 to Hungry and is significant as still today it is England’s biggest defeat ever. The match in Hungry was a return match of a friendly match in Wembley in 1953. In 1953 Hungry won 6-3.

As you asked; in the 1954 World Cup England got to the quarter finals and were then knocked out by Uruguay.

Syndey Harbour bridge and opera house

So many photos must have been taken of the Syndey harbour bridge and opera house. I took a few! On New Year day when I did the bridge climb and we were talking about the bridge I asked a native Sydney resident whether they had taken a bridge picture. They never had!

The first time I saw the bridge and opera house I was not expecting to see them; we had arrived in Sydney late in the day, almost dinner time and our tour guide recommended fed walking from hotel to the circular quay. I wandered out mainly looking for someone to eat. Then I saw them! After about three weeks of being in Australia; these iconic buildings! Wow! That night I ate a pub meal outside looking up at the bridge.

Our tour the next day around Sydney meant we saw the bridge from lots of angles. In the afternoon I took a ferry to Manly and therefore sailed under it.

The following day was nye years eve or as the signs said SYD NYE. In the morning before the botanical gardens closed for the afternoon to get ready for the night I was able to have a wander in them. I saw the opera house and bridge from more angles. There is a gate at the bottom of the Botanical gardens which you can normally walk through and be directly at the opera house but the gate was closed due to it being New Year’s Eve.

New Year’s Eve was spent on a boat circling around in Syndey harbour. Therefore saw plenty of the opera house and bridge and they were lit up. At 9pm and midnight there were fireworks from the bridge. Completely amazing that I saw Sydney fireworks from a post anchored right in front of it. In fact, our boat was part of a light possession with other boats in front of the bridge.

New year’s day I did a bridge climb. The most nerve racking part was taking a breathlaser test! Being on the bridge did not feel that high or precarious as feet on wide pathway far from the edge. Firmly attached to the bridge. Just a couple of ladders to climb. You can not take own camera up there but photos are taken of you with fabulous Sydney backdrop. Of course you buy to add to collection of photos of the bridge!